WRITTEN BY / Selina Cheng / March 10, 2017
PUT YOUR HANDS UP
For conservative Hindu women in India, becoming a widow can mean eternal banishment from society. When husbands die, widows often end up ostracized, dismissed as inauspicious perpetual mourners. Until recently, they were not socially permitted to celebrate the colorful Hindu spring festival of Holi.
“A widow must not dress in colors or make herself pretty, because that would be inappropriate to her new role as eternally diminished mourner. A widow must eat only bland food, in small portions, because richness and spice would stir passions she should never again experience,” reported National Geographic in a February feature about global widowhood. “These are fading Hindu rules, largely dismissed by educated Indians as relics of another century, but they are still taken seriously in some villages and conservative families.”
Holi festivities include music, dancing, flinging vibrant powders in the air and at others, and drinking cannabis-based bhaang—nothing appropriate for a person socially expected to spend her life in depression. But NGO Sulabh International, which provides services and shelter to widows in Vrindavan, has started organizing public Holi celebrations for widows.
This year, on March 9, a rebel group of widows in Vrindavan, northern India, joined in the fun, Indian daily Business Standard reports. In the following images, they undergo an apparent transformation, their white saris of widowhood covered in brilliant yellows, pinks and greens. For women condemned to eternal grief, it’s a visually stunning act of joyful defiance.